Just because you met, fell in love, and decided to spend the rest of your life together, does not mean you have anything in common. Really, opposites attract. But, that doesn't mean you can't create shared interests (no, the kids do not count). This may involve being open to getting involved in something your spouse loves (for us it's been fish and blogging- he loves one, I love the other and we do both together- well at least he takes my picture and I let him keep fish in our house). Or, it may be creating a hobby together. Over the years, we have taken up many new hobbies we can do together that we both enjoy. Including holiday decorating, interior design, video games (we play World of Warcraft- or did before we had kids, who has time right now) and photography.